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The number one sin you can commit as a mack

The number one sin you can commit as a mack…the absolute worst thing you can do in your dealings with a female…believe it or not, it ain’t cheating. It’s not playing the role of Captain Save-A- Hoe, though I wouldn’t recommend blowing the dust off that old cape tucked away in the back of your closet. (Hopefully by now you’ve burned that joint to a charred crisp!)

The biggest sin you can commit as a mack is to be boring. That’s right; I said BORING!Nothing will drive a woman away faster; nothing will make her seek the company of another man quicker, than for you to turn into a love song on her.

What I’m talking about here is being predictable; failing to be a challenge anymore; no longer being the mysterious, intriguing guy you were when she first fell for you. There’s a danger that comes once you begin to get comfortable with a female. This is usually when you start letting your Mack guard down. You start falling back into old simpish ways and behavior: phone checks, being quick to answer her every call, spending all your free time around her, questioning her every movement and demanding an account of where she’s been for the past hour…or giving an account of your own whereabouts whenever she asks.

When you’ve put your best Mack moves into practice and snatched yourself a good one, and after you’ve spent some time with her, this is when you are the most vulnerable. This is when a female will really test you to see what you’re made of. That’s why this Macking thing has to be solid down in you. It’s got to become a part of your very DNA. You have to get to the place where you eat, sleep and breathe this Macking!

If you’re play-macking out here, you will get found out. You’re eventually gonna slip; and when you do, instead of the Mack Within coming to the forefront, the Simp Within will show up in his place. And the female you’re dealing with will know that you ain’t true to the game you’ve been spitting. She’ll know you’ve been perpetrating a fraud. And eventually you’ll get dropped like all the other simps. So don’t become a victim of your own lack of discipline! Get this Macking down in you for real, and anchor yourself to it like a ship to the ocean’s floor.

There’s a saying: the things you did to get her are the things you need to do to keep her. This is usually quoted in reference to doing simpish things like buying gifts and flowers; but it’s doubly true when it comes to being a true to the game Mack.

Don’t relax; never let your guard down. Be on the job 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Keep them women guessing about your next move. Keep them intrigued with the level of your wisdom and knowledge. Keep them on their toes when they try throwing temper tantrums on you. Stay looking sharp and dressing fly. And never let them get away with even the subtlest form of disrespect.

And above all: never, ever become boring and predictable.


Your Helpful guide to a successful nightclub outing

• First define what a successful night is for you. Mind would be just a little grinding and maybe 2-3 numbers

• Knowing the type of club your going to be going to is key. This will help you better prepare. Do people get loose at this spot or do they just come out to stunt?

• Have a little fucking rhythm for Christ sakes. If you can dance that’s an easy opener plus some girls can’t dance for shit so if you can guide them through rhythm then that’s an opportunity to pull her over to the side after your done and chat her up for a minute.
+ 1 if you can salsa dance.

• Have fun. It’s the club so relax and smile from time to time. Acting a little silly doesn’t hurt either

• Look fucking presentable and wear some sort of ornament that will make you stand out.(Peacocking) A button up and grey pants are cool.. but you need some sort of ornament that will make it easy for women to start a conversation with you

• If she’s watching her friend grind on some guy hardcore She’s more than likely probably down to do the same so go ahead and grab her wrist like a cave man.

• If she’s standing their staring super hard at the dance floor go ahead and grab her wrist like a caveman

• If dancehall music is playing, go ahead and grab her wrist like a caveman.

• As rude as it might seem… grabbing the wrist lightly nudging her into a dance routine usually works for me 77% of the time (maybe cause I don’t look threatening)

• No what time it is. Anytime before 11.. might be a good time to chat with tons of woman for maybe just a few minutes. After 12:30 it turns into a meat market and a lot of times everything is up for grabs (depending on what time the club closes) Plus you can go back to those girls you comfort built with earlier and Bam… your in!

• Don’t approach from behind unless the atmosphere is conducive to that situation. Girls get startled easily so its best to approach from an angle

• If you’re grinding with a girl and you notice through her body language that she’s into you.. Pull her to the side and chat her up some more..i.e Are those your friends? Is that Coral or pink? Are you into Rhythmic Gymnastics?

• Keep that drink in hand. You can get away with a lot when you have a drink in hand

• Dont fear rejection..just wipe it off and move on to the next one. This one chick told me that she had a boyfriend and proceeded to tell me how cool she thought I was….I was like “haha your good… you don’t have to give me an explanation” and then I dipped out. The quicker you can shake it off… the faster you can move on

• Approach like a long-lost friend and not a thirsty nigga.. Compliment her style game without complimenting her physically.

And Fellas… this is a constructive thread So add your tips, tricks and advice…
Nothing is 100% but the more you know the better you can prepare…..Each one teach one!

• oh lastly… Always bring a stack of mints! I stay with a shitload of certs in my back pocket.


The Dog,The Train,And The Tail

A dog was walking across the road and came to a railroad track. While crossing the track a train came through and ran over a bit of his tail. The train passed and the dog reached back to get the little piece of his tail. While retrieving it another train came through and ran over his head.

The message is “don’t lose your head over a little piece of tail”. It’s really about staying focus on what really important and on course. I think it’s a topic worth discussion, see how we have countless men losing their jobs, going through legal and financial headaches or worse incarcerated over a piece of tail. We as men must always remain calm, in the know, and logical through all adversity. Especially black men, cause they’re just waiting for a reason to throw us under the bus and take away our stripes. And the last thing you want to lose everything over is a piece of tail.


Who You Trying to Impress?

It’s funny how people can hide behind a little image, they some real great actors but don’t really live it. Who’s to blame for the front these people putting on? It ain’t a swag just a front you niggas putting on. These females wearing fake bags,niggas wearing fake chains, I guess fake people like to hide behind fake things. Same ones quick to say they real but whats the definition, trying to impress others and yourself end up missing. A lot of people black,white,mexican, young,old,fat,skinny have a problem being true to themselves, they have a problem looking into the mirror looking directly into their own soul. That’s the reason I am who I am today, cause I can look directly in my face and find my soul.


We Marquette Now

Since I couldn’t get back into school when i got back home back in February,I had to wait a whole semester just to register for (summer) classes.

Now everything went through and now I’m officially a Marquette student majoring in Broadcast & Electronic Communication.


I don’t compete with niggas

So I was at school earlier today getting paperwork ready to take summer classes and ran into this girl I hadn’t seen in like 3 years. We had went to HS together and then moved back into town earlier this year. We kicked it since freshman year and I was digging her but she ended up starting to date this one guy and she’s still with him now.

So we start talking, just reminiscing about hanging out and I just come out and say “you know I was digging you back then, right?”

She responds “Darius, I LIKED YOU TOO!! Why didn’t you say anything?”

And that’s the thing. The nigga she’s with now was all over her when I wasn’t chilling with her. While you’re always “competing” with niggas, I don’t believe in being on no team Edward and team Jacob shit with chicks. Now was she bad? Yes. Was she seemingly cool as fuck? Yeah. Regardless,I’m not gonna be going the extra motherfucking mile to get with a chick. I learned my lesson back in HS. Either you’re interested or not. Courting a girl shouldn’t be comparable to the World Martial Arts Tournament. Especially with my frequently hectic life. Not to mention all the fish in the sea and that jazz.

Am I wrong for this? If a chick seems “worth it”, do you swallow your pride and say fuck it? Is proving yourself even against a direct rival a critical part of courting that is unwise to back off from?


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